Author: Don Paglia

May 2nd and May 9th, 2024 IMAGO DIALOGUE WORKSHOP: a new way to love           IMAGO is an effective way to connect with your partner. It’s also a powerful tool that will radically transform your relationship into a conscious couplehood. This workshop is designed to assist all couples to become conscious and able to nurture […]

Workshops Family Constellations: Healing Our Family of Origin Individual $65 Couple $90 Student $25 Scholarships available Pre-register 203-671-2211 donjpaglia@gmail.com Westrock Wellness, 869 Whalley Ave, New Haven Sending fee to: donjpaglia@gmail.com Don’s Favorites Some Decent Books Don’s Favorite Links Don’s Favorite Movies Silliness Saturday, September 14 Westrock Wellness, 869 Whalley Ave, New Haven 10 a.m. to […]

Workshops Marital programs, seminars, workshops and retreats Individual $65 Couple $90 Student $25 Scholarships available Pre-register 203-671-2211 donjpaglia@gmail.com Westrock Wellness, 869 Whalley Ave, New Haven Sending fee to: donjpaglia@gmail.com Don’s Favorites Some Decent Books Don’s Favorite Links Don’s Favorite Movies Silliness Saturday, January 24, 2024 Westrock Wellness, 869 Whalley Ave, New Haven 6:30 pm – […]

Family Constellations: Healing Our Family of Origin  “Do not think that love, in order to be genuine, has to be extraordinary what we need is to love without conditions.”                                                        […]

#10:    GET INTO THERAPY Finally, the tenth step for becoming a successful victim. If you have been following along up to now then it is time for you to advance as you are ready – more than ready for professional victimhood. You are now a professional victim and this means you’re ready to take on […]

# 9: ALWAYS FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE AND/OR POTENTIALLY BAD IN LIFE If you have been following along up to now you should already be pretty well versed with this step. And there are always the newspapers, the internet and all kinds of other media available to help you advance your capacity to victimhood. With […]

# 8:    SELECT A STYLE THAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU Victims come in all sorts of different shapes and styles. Only you are the one who is best suited to determine what style of victimhood is more to your own liking there are plenty of options available. What’s critical is that you decide on a […]

# 7:    MAKE OTHERS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIPS This next Step to becoming an effective victim logically follows from all the previous steps. This one is especially designed to have you work smarter as opposed to working harder. In fact it is all about getting others to work harder while you do little to nothing: […]

# 6:     CULTIVATE YOUR SENSE OF PARANOIA If you have been following along these past few weeks and are utilizing the various steps offered so far, then you are surely well on your way to a life of successful victimhood. You’re now ready for what may be considered some advanced steps – steps that will […]

# 5:     GET A MENTOR If you truly want to excel in your capacity for becoming an effective victim look for other skilled victims to teach you how to best complain, to grovel, and to hone your capacity to be a victim, and especially in how to complain with outrage. Learn by imitating these pros. […]